topology: Look up references for an object based on its index
We can distinguish different use cases by the object index value, the default
value is 0, meaning applicable for all use cases, defined by macro "SND_TOLG_INDEX_ALL".
An element can only refer to other elements for "all" use cases or the same use
cases, i.e. it can only refer to elements with index value "SND_TOLG_INDEX_ALL"
or the same index value as itself.
The object list has been sorted in ascending order of index, so when we look up
a reference for an object, we traverse the object list it depends on, if we have
not found the reference until index of the object list is greater than index of
the object, we give up and return an error.